Dear Dr. Behavior-- My relationship just ended, and I wanted you to explain to me what happened. Whenever I wanted to talk about our relationship, my mate would yell, "I can't take the pressure! I need to be alone! I'm just not cut out to be in a relationship!" Obviously, this would end the discussion. As the relationship continued, I was less likely to talk to her about our problems. The relationship finally ended due to lack of communication. What was going on here, Dr. Behavior? --Sensitive New Age Guy.
Give an everyday explanation of both people's behavior followed by a scientific explanation.